One of the common phrases I learned in my classes is "I love you too much to argue about it." This is supposed to keep me from arguing with the kids. I have used this with moderate success for several weeks now.
Tonight at dinner, I was feeding the baby corn, and I wasn't paying close attention to the kids' conversation. But I did notice that it was starting to turn into an argument. Before I could do anything, N said something that got my immediate attention. She turned to her older brother C and said, "I love you too much to argue about it." I looked over at her right away, and she looked at me a bit sheepishly. I was so enthusiastic! "That's right, N. Way to go! You're going to make a great mom someday!" I love that she is starting to use these techniques to eliminate arguing!!!! And it's that much more entertaining to see her use them on her brothers! It shocked C so much that the argument was over that instant! Here's to more getting along...
Love it! That's funny and such a reward!
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